Ben Ben

About Ben

A life coach is basically someone who helps a person move from “I know something needs to change” to “here’s how I actually change it” 🚀🧠✨ But unlike a therapist, a life coach usually focuses less on deep past wounds and more on clarity, action, habits, decisions, accountability, and direction. What a life coach typically does helps you define what you actually want detects where you’re self-blocking asks sharp questions that expose contradictions helps structure goals into steps keeps you accountable over time helps with confidence, routine, decisions, motivation A lot of coaching is: “You say you want X — so why is your life organized around Y?” That’s why good coaching can feel confronting in a useful way 😅 Topics people bring to coaching career confusion relationship patterns discipline problems sleep / health routines procrastination money decisions identity shifts life transitions What they usually do not do A coach is not supposed to diagnose or treat things like: Depression Anxiety disorder trauma disorders That belongs to licensed mental health professionals. A good coach often acts like: part strategist + mirror + pressure + perspective 🎯 They often notice patterns like: “You’re highly capable, but your life leaks energy in hidden places.” The difference between a mediocre and excellent coach A mediocre one gives motivational slogans. A strong one helps you reorganize reality. In practice Sometimes coaching is literally: weekly conversation questions reframing concrete commitments before next session Sometimes it becomes almost like performance design.